Monday, November 1, 2010
My husband and I are in the midst of Unity’s yearly fall book study program, spending treasured time once a week with a group of spiritual seekers and kindred spirits. While willingness isn’t a specific topic in the book we’re studying, the idea of being willing came up last week, and I was grateful for the reminder about this important spiritual tool.
All forms of unforeseen assistance result from a decision to, if nothing else, just be willing. In life we face many different situations in which we are unsure how to proceed, or are not sure that we know how to accomplish what is expected of us, or what we hope ourselves to be capable of. There are times when what we envision is so very different from what we’ve known ourselves or the world to be that our seemingly lofty hopes can seem like pipe dreams. In all of these times, being willing opens our hearts and our minds to divine intelligence that will find a way for good regardless of how things appear on the surface.
The limitless creative potential that exists in each of us is quickened by our willingness. In those rough times when we feel stuck or lost and can think of no appropriate course of action, being willing to just consider the possibility that there is a perfect answer to our need can allow the universe to work its magic on our behalf.
Being willing to suspend our judgment and preconceived notions for just a moment makes room for the seeds of a higher reality to take hold. An example might be feeling deeply unable to forgive someone, even though we might want to. A decision in that moment to just try to be willing to forgive creates a subtle but vast shift in what we are capable of, and who we know ourselves to be. We can change the world by just being willing.
In making a decision to be willing, we don’t have to be perfect. We don’t even have to trust that we will be able to do what we’re hoping to do. We can be ever so gentle with ourselves, and honor our humanity, by acknowledging that even when things seem the most fraught with limitation, we can stop fighting and surrender to our willingness.
May this tool be a blessing. . .