Saturday, March 24, 2012
Having Compassion For Yourself
Many of us tend to be harder on ourselves than on others. I see other people facing challenges and sometimes acting in negative ways, and compassion comes easily. My deep intention in those times is to find a way to understand, and to forgive. I send my prayers out into the universe for the best to happen for them, and I know that it is done. I try to remember to allow my best and highest to express in the situation, too, and know that it is also done.
I'm finding that compassion for myself needs to go deeper than that. I'm seeing now that it's not wrong or selfish to focus more on compassion for myself than for others. That's a different approach for me, but I see the importance of it.
The more intentional we are about listening to ourselves, taking the time to hear what we need to do to take care of ourselves, feeling and honoring our emotions, and holding ourselves in compassion and love, we are a light in the world, allowing others to do the same.
When I step out of trying to fix a situation for someone else and focus instead on my own wholeness, I find myself again in truth where everything around me is already perfect, and there is nothing that I or anyone else need to do better or differently.
When I seek first to understand myself, and forgive myself, and then cut myself the same slack I would for another, I am holding a space for divine love. When I shift my awareness to seeing myself, and the situation, as God does, there is limitless compassion.
May you find compassion first for yourself, and may this tool be a blessing. . .